The world seems a brighter place and the days seem to bring sunshine if you are in love. But not all of us have a happy-ever-after story ending. Your ex was an important part of your personal journey. He was part of your story, but he is not the one. Would getting revenge on your now ex-lover make you feel better? Read our tips below on how to get the sweetest revenge on your cheating ex.
- Be your best self.
Makeovers are for YOU, not your ex. Resist the urge to make dramatic changes. Losing 10 lbs. is not going to get your ex back. And if it did, how would that make you feel?
- Show that you are happy.
One of the best ways to get revenge on your ex is to never show him that you are affected with the breakup. Never show him how depressed you are over what happened between you both as it only gives him the idea that leaving you was a good decision. Show a happy disposition, and make it appear like you are happy with your current situation. It will be a big slap on his face because he will keep on wondering why. When he is expecting you to be wallowing in misery and struggling with emotional pain, surprise him by wearing a smile all the time although it truly hurts deep inside. The secret is to fake it until you get used to it and one day you’ll realize that it was worth the faking.
- Focus on your career and make shit loads of $$$.
Get back to your desk. Think about what you really, really want to do with your life and do it. Feel powerful and invincible. Become wiser and smarter. Make more $$$. Save $$$. Invest $$$. Grow $$$. Have both feet firmer on the ground. Be thankful for the push.
- Do something nice for yourself.
Go to the gym with all the free time you have now; buy that new dress or sweater you’ve been dying to sport ever since Spring; get yourself some of the fro-yo from the new shop that just opened up. Treat yourself. You deserve it. The happiness you’ll get from it will surely make your ex jealous.
- Let karma do her job
Whether you call it revenge or justice or karma, your ex will get what’s coming to him. If he deserves to be punished, he will be punished. Don’t get in the way of the natural order of justice, or of karma. Let karma or God take care of the past, of the way things “should be.” However, if your ex did anything illegal, I encourage you to talk to the police about pressing charges! There is a huge difference between getting revenge on your ex because your feelings are hurt versus pressing charges against a man who harmed you.