Lahat naman tayo naranasan masaktan. Yung iba nga lang, hindi worth it, hindi patas. Yung wala naman mali sayo, pero mukhang may mali pa din kasi iniwan ka niya, nagsawa, nakahanap ng iba, di na nag-wo-work out yung relasyon, fall out of love at napagod mga madalas na dahilan kung bakit napuputol ang relasyon. Kakaiba lang na alam mo sa sarili mo ginawa mo yung makakaya mo para maging okay, stable at masaya yung relasyon ninyo. Mapapatanong ka na lang siguro, ‘Ano ang mali sayo? Saan ka nagkulang?’. Honestly lahat naman tayo may pagkukulang, hindi naman kasi tayo perpektong tao. Siguro sadyang nakalaan lang talaga na iwan tayo ng taong mahal natin. Kahit pa siguro hilahin natin pataas yung relasyon natin sa isang tao pataas, kung bumitaw yung siya, wala rin. Ang saklap naman siguro lumaban mag-isa hindi ba? Lalo na kung hindi na nakikita yung worth mo. Siguro deserve mo din sumaya, yung ibabalik din sayo yung pagmamahal na binibigay mo.
Message for someone makes you feel invaluable and only caring from themselves:
You make me realize how you treated me and I realize how I should be treated. I was a fool and blind loving you. I accept who you are with your flaws, we have so many break ups. Yet we always came back together, you said that, ‘You love me and it is just all it matters’. But nothing changed, it is still the same, we hurt each other. Worst is you just care about yourself. Your happiness, your needs, wants and desires. I realize that our relationship just runs based on how you should be happy, but how about me? I’m a vessel too containing emotions. I also need love, care and most of all acceptance on who I’am. Farewell.
Message for someone makes you feel invaluable and only caring from themselves:
You make me realize how you treated me and I realize how I should be treated. I was a fool and blind loving you. I accept who you are with your flaws, we have so many break ups. Yet we always came back together, you said that, ‘You love me and it is just all it matters’. But nothing changed, it is still the same, we hurt each other. Worst is you just care about yourself. Your happiness, your needs, wants and desires. I realize that our relationship just runs based on how you should be happy, but how about me? I’m a vessel too containing emotions. I also need love, care and most of all acceptance on who I’am. Farewell.
Message for someone that waste you:
I wasn’t looking for anything at all when I met you. Actually, I wasn’t planning on falling for anyone so soon. But then I met you. And that was it…I guess things just happened. I found you and I found myself slowly wanting to spend time with you. It was simple. It was easy. And I think that’s how the best relationships begin. You’re not looking for anything so I Am, we are content in each other.
I was happy in our relationship, I gave my best effort to have a nice and cool relationship. I even always put you before anything else. But it doesn’t last, the more our relationship lasts, the faded the love. It is not just an exaggeration. Because as far as I can see, you and me are not the same anymore, those late night talks about our days went, how we comfort each other if something happens, our quality time together that ends up no more time to each other.
I try to hold and understand you the best I could, but it hurts when I see you happy with the person you’re interested with, it shatters me seeing you care for her more than me. I even remember what you told me that there will be no other than me. But what I Am seeing now? If this is a nightmare I would gladly wake up and let you give another chance, but the thing is this is reality and I’m delighted to let go of what we have over your decision. Most of all I value myself.
Message for someone that waste you 2:
I wanted to say ‘Don’t leave me’, but I couldn’t do it again. I wanted to say ‘Why can’t you understand how I’m feeling’, but I knew I can’t force you. I wanted to say ‘I don’t care anymore’, but I realized that wouldn’t make anything better. I wanted to say ‘I’m sorry”, but she knows she hasn’t done anything wrong. She wanted to say “You never used to be like this.’, but I figured that I shouldn’t beg you to change. I wanted to say ‘I want us to try to work things out’, but I accept that nothing can be fixed between you and me. I wanted to say, ‘Maybe we should give us another chance’, but I reminded myself that it’s not even worth it anymore. I wanted to say ‘I don’t want to give up on us’, but I decided that I truly can’t do this anymore. I wanted to say “I miss you”, but I stopped myself from going down that path again. I wanted to say “I love you”, but I had to remember how much I actually hated you for hurting me as bad as you did. And once you realize to the point where I doesn’t give a fuck anymore, you’re not getting me back.
Message for cheaters:
Cheating has never been an option, it’s a choice and what you did cannot be paired with apology. I know it is bad to be mad, to someone who cheated on you. I can disregard that, because I love you so much. But the thing is, I feel sorry for myself.
Especially on how you disregard me as if I’m a stranger, it breaks me whenever you tell your friends that ‘I’m just your friend.’ I laughed to myself letting you do that. I can still remember how you surprised me on our special day, caught you being with a girl and telling me you were ill. I’d love you with all my heart, I accept you for being who you are. It hurts but I’m thankful for being able to cut ties with you.
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Kung ang nagbabasa nito ngayon ay may pinagdadaanan, kung ano man yan. Alam kong malalagpasan mo din yan. ‘Healing takes time, focus on yourself, your goals and dream. Make yourself glow.’
I hope this blog makes you realize something, you can cry and that’s okay. But always be back at your own feet, keep fighting! You can also share your thoughts and feelings in the comment section below and try reading our other blogs out here.
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